He Doesn’t Make Me C*m
Orgasms. Sheet griping, toe curling, lip biting orgasms. That is literally how I pictured my 20’s. Not once did I ever think I would have to go through my sexual experiences and wonder if this is the person to make my body feel things I’ve only dreamt about. I never thought about orgasming as being taboo, once in a blue moon type of thing. Then I started having sex regularly and what did I notice, most men (clearly the ones Iv’e been with and the ones I hear about in the group chats) either don’t care if a female orgasms or they don’t know a woman’s body enough to make it happen. Now, I definitely think it’s a mixture of the two. I honestly believe that when it comes to sex most men are selfish! It’s easier to achieve their own orgasm than to put in work to see their partner have that same satisfaction, if not more. So now I want to explore it; because honestly I am to about to turn 27 and I have never experienced the type of orgasms that caused me temporary paralysis and loss in brain function, which I high-key want every single time I have sex (clearly not recommended but should be understood).
